How Often Should I Review My Estate Plan If I Have A Blended Family?
Families are often complex and ever-changing—especially when children from previous marriages are part of the picture. For families in Gloucester, Rockport, Manchester By The Sea, Beverly, and across the North Shore, ensuring everyone is fairly protected requires estate plans that evolve with life’s transitions. At The Sullivan Firm P.C., we often meet families who completed their estate plans years ago and haven’t looked at them since. The problem is that what was fair and effective at one point may no longer reflect current relationships, tax laws, or financial realities. In Massachusetts, outdated documents can create serious legal and emotional consequences, particularly for blended families.
Reviewing your estate plan on a regular basis—ideally every three to five years or after major life changes—is essential to maintaining protection for your spouse, children, and intended beneficiaries. Under Massachusetts law, marriage, divorce, or the birth of a child can automatically alter inheritance rights, revoke certain provisions, or change tax exposure. If your family structure has changed, your plan must change with it.
Why Regular Reviews Matter For Blended Families
Massachusetts’ intestacy and probate laws, codified in Massachusetts General Laws Chapter 190B, govern what happens when someone dies without updated estate documents. For blended families, this can lead to unintentional disinheritance or conflicts between a surviving spouse and children from prior marriages.
For instance, M.G.L. c.190B § 2-102 provides that if a person dies leaving a spouse and descendants who are not also descendants of that spouse, the surviving spouse receives the first $100,000 plus one-half of the remaining estate. The rest passes directly to the decedent’s children. This formula may not reflect your wishes and can be avoided only through a properly drafted and regularly updated will or trust.
Without regular reviews, you risk having your estate plan undermined by default statutory provisions that apply regardless of your intentions.
Events That Should Trigger An Estate Plan Review
Even if your current estate plan seems sufficient, Massachusetts law and life circumstances change over time. Here are key events that should trigger an immediate review:
- Marriage Or Divorce: Under M.G.L. c.190B § 2-804, divorce automatically revokes any provisions in favor of a former spouse in a will or trust. Remarriage may give your new spouse elective share rights, altering your previous plan.
- Birth Or Adoption Of A Child: If a child is born or adopted after your will was created and not included, that child may still be entitled to an intestate share under M.G.L. c.190B § 2-302, unless explicitly excluded.
- Change In Assets: Buying or selling real estate, inheriting money, or starting a business all affect how your plan functions.
- Relocation: Moving from another state to Massachusetts, or vice versa, can create conflicts if your documents are not consistent with Massachusetts statutes.
- Changes In Tax Law: Massachusetts imposes its own estate tax on estates over $2 million, and federal exemptions change regularly. Without an updated tax strategy, your family could face unnecessary tax liability.
- Death Or Incapacity Of A Beneficiary Or Fiduciary: If a trustee, executor, or beneficiary dies or becomes incapacitated, replacement provisions should be updated.
- Health Or Long-Term Care Concerns: Revisiting health care proxies and durable powers of attorney under M.G.L. c.201D and c.190B § 5-501 ensures you have the right decision-makers in place.
Regular updates not only keep your documents legally valid but also ensure that they continue to reflect your family’s needs and relationships.
Protecting Both Spouse And Children In Blended Families
A well-designed estate plan balances care for a current spouse with inheritance rights for children from prior marriages. The most effective tool for this is often a trust, governed by M.G.L. c.203E, the Massachusetts Uniform Trust Code.
A revocable living trust allows you to name a trustee to manage assets for your spouse’s lifetime while preserving the remainder for your children. This structure provides financial security for your surviving spouse but prevents assets from being redirected away from your children after your passing.
Additionally, Qualified Terminable Interest Property (QTIP) trusts can give a surviving spouse income for life while guaranteeing that the principal passes to your children later. Regular reviews ensure that these trusts continue to reflect your family structure and tax environment.
Updating Beneficiary Designations
Even with a will or trust in place, beneficiary designations on life insurance policies, retirement plans, and payable-on-death accounts often override estate documents. In Massachusetts, the named beneficiary generally controls the distribution of those assets regardless of what your will says.
This can cause major issues for blended families—especially if an ex-spouse or outdated designation remains on file. We always recommend reviewing these designations whenever you update your estate plan to make sure they align with your overall goals.
Coordinating Guardianship And Health Care Planning
For families with minor children or dependents, guardianship designations in a will are vital. If you have children from a previous relationship, your will should clearly name a guardian and define financial management for those children. Without such designations, the Probate and Family Court decides guardianship under M.G.L. c.190B § 5-204, which may not align with your wishes.
Likewise, reviewing health care proxies and durable powers of attorney ensures that both your spouse and your children understand their respective roles in decision-making should you become incapacitated.
Avoiding Family Conflict Through Transparency And Regular Review
Blended families often benefit from transparent communication supported by clear, updated documents. Massachusetts trust law under M.G.L. c.203E § 813 requires trustees to keep beneficiaries informed about trust administration, which helps prevent misunderstandings.
By reviewing and updating your plan regularly, you maintain control over who serves as trustee, how beneficiaries are notified, and what information must be shared. This prevents disputes and reinforces fairness across your entire family.
How Often You Should Review Your Estate Plan
For most Massachusetts residents, we recommend reviewing your estate plan at least every three to five years. However, for blended families, reviews should occur more frequently—particularly after any significant change in family structure, assets, or law.
Periodic reviews ensure that your documents reflect current family dynamics, legal standards, and tax thresholds. They also provide peace of mind that your spouse and children will be treated as you intend, not as the law defaults.
Working With An Attorney Who Understands Blended Family Dynamics
At The Sullivan Firm P.C., we understand that no two blended families are alike. We create plans that provide clarity, stability, and fairness. Reviewing an estate plan is not simply about legal compliance—it’s about maintaining family harmony and protecting everyone you care about.
We meet with clients across Gloucester, Rockport, Manchester By The Sea, Beverly, and Essex County to review wills, trusts, prenuptial agreements, beneficiary designations, and other planning documents. Regular legal review ensures that your estate plan continues to reflect both your intentions and current Massachusetts law.
Frequently Asked Questions About Reviewing An Estate Plan For A Blended Family In Massachusetts
How Often Should I Review My Estate Plan If I Have A Blended Family?
We recommend reviewing your plan every three to five years, or immediately after any significant life event such as marriage, divorce, or the birth of a child. Massachusetts statutes—such as M.G.L. c.190B §§ 2-301 and 2-804—can automatically change how your estate is handled if your plan is outdated.
Can My Old Will Still Be Valid After I Remarry?
Yes, but remarriage may affect how your estate is distributed. If your will was created before your current marriage, it may not account for your new spouse’s elective share rights under M.G.L. c.191 § 15. We recommend updating your will as soon as possible after remarriage.
What Happens If I Forget To Update My Beneficiaries?
Beneficiary designations on accounts like life insurance or retirement plans generally override wills. If an ex-spouse is still listed, they may legally inherit that account. Regular reviews ensure all designations align with your estate planning goals.
Can My Spouse Disinherit My Children From A Prior Marriage?
Without a trust, yes, this can happen. A surviving spouse may inherit outright and later change their own will. By using a QTIP or other marital trust under M.G.L. c.203E, you can ensure your spouse is supported for life while preserving the principal for your children.
Does Massachusetts Law Automatically Remove My Ex-Spouse From My Will After Divorce?
Yes. Under M.G.L. c.190B § 2-804, divorce revokes any disposition or appointment of property in favor of a former spouse. However, it does not automatically update your other documents or designations, which is why reviewing your plan after divorce is critical.
Do I Need A Lawyer To Review My Estate Plan?
While not required, working with an attorney ensures that your documents comply with current Massachusetts laws and accurately reflect your wishes. DIY updates often overlook tax consequences, beneficiary coordination, or fiduciary obligations that apply in blended family situations.
What Happens If I Move To Or From Massachusetts?
Each state has different rules regarding probate, trust administration, and spousal rights. When relocating, you should immediately review your estate plan to ensure it complies with Massachusetts law, including property titling and estate tax thresholds.
How Can I Reduce Family Conflicts After My Death?
Clear, updated documents and transparent communication are key. Using trusts and written letters of intent can clarify your wishes. Trustees in Massachusetts must provide information to beneficiaries under M.G.L. c.203E § 813, which helps prevent disputes.
Call The Sullivan Firm P.C. Today
At The Sullivan Firm P.C., we help blended families create and maintain estate plans that protect both spouses and children while remaining fully compliant with Massachusetts law. Our attorneys regularly review and update wills, trusts, and other planning documents for clients in Gloucester, Rockport, Manchester By The Sea, Beverly, and across Essex County.
Call 978-325-2721 today for a free consultation. Let our Gloucester-based team help ensure your estate plan remains current, fair, and legally sound for every member of your family.




